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I’d like to share my family’s story — one of loss, survival, and a painful separation that left us living on opposite sides of a divided world.

Syn0psis
Ruptured Lives -- How Hitler's Final Solution decimated my family and Stalin's Iron Curtain tore it apart is a dramatic and unique true story that's been shaped by the political events of Central Europe. It's shaken by repressive Soviet-style policies, age-old antisemitism, Hitler's annexation of Czechoslovakia, the Holocaust, shifting borders, and political and social dislocation in post-WWII Europe that indelibly mark generations.
It is more than a memoir. It records painful family separations and misunderstandings that led to a significant rift between the author and her sister in Czechoslovakia and an unexpected reconciliation.
Firstly, it's the fascinating story of Leo, the Czech Jewish father, an irascible and abrasive man who, in his own life, is a chemical engineer, an RAF bomber-navigator, and finally a farmer in Jamaica.
It's a tale of Leo's two daring and dangerous escapes from his homeland to freedom in the West, initially from Hitler's "Protectorate" and, after WWII, from Stalinist Czechoslovakia, and the tragedy of Leo's Solomonic decision to leave behind a baby daughter who is raised by her maternal grandparents under communism, essentially an orphan, reunited with her mother only after 33 years, and who never knows her father.
Living continents apart in Jamaica and Czechoslovakia under differing and unrelenting political systems, unable to speak the same language, and having dissimilar life expectations, fueled by jealousy and bitter resentment, there slowly and inevitably develops a great rift and a silent chasm.
Thus it is also the older sister's story, a ghost haunting her parents in Jamaica as she grows up behind the Iron Curtain in communist Czechoslovakia.
But along with their stories, it's about the author's journey of discovery into her Czech, partially Jewish heritage and a quest to define who she is beyond the obvious characteristics -- a woman with a Czech name, born in England with no British relatives, speaking English with a Jamaican accent, and living in Germany married to a German.
And, it is during this search, mainly through archival records, for identity, for ancestors, and for possibly still living relatives, that events take a very unexpected turn. An Israeli lawyer surfaces quite out of the blue with completely unanticipated information relating to the grandparents murdered in Auschwitz 75 years earlier. The long-dead grandparents then miraculously heal the silence, leading to reconciliation in a family almost destroyed by history.
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About the Author
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If someone had told Jarmila years ago that she would one day become a writer, she would have laughed and said, “Never in a thousand years.” But as the saying goes, never say never. Today, she proudly carries the title of author—a remarkable turn of events for someone who was always drawn to science, never the arts.
Jarmila’s academic and professional background is firmly rooted in the sciences. She trained as a physicist, geophysicist, and earthquake seismologist. In Jamaica, she worked for the government as a geophysicist- seismologist, and later in Germany, she joined Siemens, specializing in earthquake engineering for the nuclear industry.
People often ask her, “Where are you from?”—a question she still finds difficult to answer. Born in England to Czech parents, she speaks with a Jamaican accent and lives in Germany. She holds three nationalities, speaks three languages, and feels at home wherever her husband is.
From her early days in Jamaica, Jarmila developed a passion for cooking. Naturally competitive, she enjoys the challenges of both bridge and tennis. In Jamaica, she learned to scuba dive and water ski and now, in retirement, she seizes every opportunity to get into water, whether snorkeling, kayaking, or simply floating around.
For m0re about Ruptured Lives please have a look at any of the Amazon websites, eg:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/3982523400
https://search.worldcat.org/title/1506900159
https://www.amazon.com/author/jarmila
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